Cherry. He's gone, and divorce is looking

[Surfer]

Cherry,

Just ask him to be respectful and call. You may have guests and don't want anything embarrassing to happen to them....etc.

Your self esteem takes a hell of a battering during DB. I really do know this. Ha ha. However, if there is something else also that makes you feel less than great about yourself you need to work on the things that boost your confidence in both arenas. As much as I have read, I believe some of these things for you include:

- Pampering
- Dressing nicely
- Doing presentations at work

Personally, I think something that puts you slightly out of your comfort zone is good. So you can work on your self esteem. But first, just focus on This part of the DB process. Remain detached and go dark. A spot of negro cereza will do nicely right now. Don't let him push your buttons again. Stay strong and confident.

Also, dont forget the GAL activities. Talking is important too.

I am sure today will be better for you. Keep that chin up and stay strong. You are an impressive person. I know people talk about you doing all this at such a young age and coping so well.. You perhaps brush this off but it's true and you are setting such a great example for your S. Imagine that easy alternative - out of control, always flying into a fight. No give yourself a well deserved ego a boost - you are doing so well. There are very few that could handle what you have.

Surfer.