Cherry, it may be time for firm boundaries. You can do it in a civil manner.

Wrt to the lock, you may want to check with your L the legal implications. Also, check with him the validity of the religious D.

(((Cherry)))

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.