So to recap, he's moved out. The last thread was mainly the results that transpired when he left. Suicidal threats, calls to police and all kinds of drama.
He has given me the religious part of the divorce (not sure it was done properly, and it isn't official until once I have delivered the baby)
He has started to swing by the house.
Surfer I will reply to you here as my old thread maxed out.
The reason of 4 months is merely for the religious divorce, he basically has the opportunity to reconcile any time until I've had the baby. After that, he would not be able to remarry me. He has called round to collect laundry, he used my machine yesterday as he said that his hasn't arrived yet. They have been flying visits, I was out yesterday most of the time he was here. Today I was in my room, kind of avoiding him, but he came to check up on me (perhaps guilt, must not mind read).
I get what you mean re trying to push my buttons about the ow. I was just annoyed, and to be honest, I didn't really want to see him for a while so I could collect myself. I just saw it as majorly disrepectful! I shall work upon this, until I can figure out a way to perhaps lay down a boundary on this.
I think that would be an idea to be out, I don't want him thinking he is the only one who has a life! I completely get what you mean regarding control, by surrendering his rights, I mean he surrendered his rights to give an opinion on my life or anything that happens in it!
I think perhaps I do have a view of not being worthy, you could be right. I'm not sure how I can improve upon this and realise that I am!
My plan was to stay dark, until he came around. Maybe I shall break this to him in a way that he needs to let me know beforehand. I don't send any texts or communicate to him. I think I need some severe space from him to regroup and collect my thoughts. Right now things are too raw and I'm adjusting that I end up feeling hurt or angry when I see him
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
