Great advice. I am getting the. Ok tomorrow and will read ASAP! You guys are explaining my wife to a T. I need to get real with. Oundries and respect.
Question: Sandi you talk a lot about boundaries and holding firm on consequences. But you also admit you cannot punish them like one of your kids. So what are acceptable consequences? Say my wife disrespects me in front of my kids and that's my boundary, Im Struggling with a tangible consequence other than kicking her out or Leaving. Don't think I can do that every time we have an encounter.