Hate to say it but all that validation you just did about her understanding, etc. We've heard it all before. Have her find a good counselor for the both of you to do it the RIGHT way. You're still sweeping and so is she.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.