Is it worth the effort to fix my sex starved marriage when I know that my wife will probably never really have desire for me, but has to "Fake" desire for me to make me happy. I now know why Dr. Laura has said many times on the radio to women, "NEVER tell your husband that you do not desire sex with him". My wife has said this many times, and I guess that the damage is done and probably can never be undone. Can I be happy EVER with this woman since I know that any solution to the problem requires her to "FAKE" desire for me. That's the way it is now, and I almost feel like a rapists at times. I don't wish to spend the rest of my life with her "Giving" me sex, I want her to agressively "Take/Want" sex from me.
