Summer Fling turned into nightmare

[MrBond]

Fear is not enough of a guarantee. Its why your H doesn't want to get back together. Deep down he's afraid. It will take time for you to reestablish that trust again. Have you figured out fully what need caused you to look elsewhere? I mean really looked. Only reason why I ask is because there are spouses who have done exactly as you have only to do it agai. Not condemning you but just being honest. I applaud you for your strength and courage to try and make things right.