To confront or not confront cheating W?

[MrBond]

'Confrontation, alone, is not the solution to the problems. Many men think that's all they need to do. I am not saying you should not approach her about the A. I am saying that simply telling her you know about the A, is not enough to turn things around.'

Sandi is completely right. Some other non-DB sites or trolls may just tell you that exposure alone is enough to 'wake up' the WAS. In fact there are a couple of recent posters where they issued an ultimatum and their spouses pushed for divorce even quicker. Having patience and knowing when and how to bring up an Uncomfortable subject is key. Patience is not limbo if you know what to do with your time.