I still think you are looking at this as a sprint and not a marathon. Your BD date wasn't even 30 days ago and you are "planning" to test water again with compliments? What is the purpose? What are you hoping to gain from it? Maybe I'm wrong but, it seems like you are treating the situation as if it's just a little spat and not the seriousness that it really is. You are living it so you obv know more but, your wife has told you in no uncertain terms that she's wants to leave you. She was/is having a PA/EA. She has made it clear what her intentions are. Yet you are "planning" to compliment her?
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17