http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2679130

If you google divorcebusting midlife and alcoholism it should bring up any threads about it

Not sure if there is a better way to search

"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"

“There is freedom waiting for you,
On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask "What if I fall?"
Oh but my darling,
What if you fly?”

-Erin Hanson