I think you are wise Cherry. Look at it this way - if a good friend of yours left her H next Tuesday, would you be in touch with him on Thursday saying - oh I always thought you were handsome, she's giving up a lot, would you like to have a drink sometime...weekend away??

Yikes!! That's not much of a friend he has... crazy

Have a good weekend xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus