Well this is the divorce busting website. So of course we are going to recommend that you try to save your marriage. I would not move out either as that is the #1 mistake that can be made in a divorce. Not sure why your IC is telling you that. You can learn how to detach and get a life without moving out or starting to date. However that is not to be discussed with your spouse. Leave a little mystery, IMHO.
Sounds like you are trying to CONTROL her. Is that true?
