I have a question because I am a little confused at what seems to me to be two contradictory ways of dealing with my MLC'er.
All the advice seems to state to go dark, be mysterious, and don't initiate conversations. However, my DB coach has instructed me to act like a friend would.
Well, to act like a friend, I wouldn't be dark and mysterious. I would be friendly, initiate conversations, and be interested in their daily lives.
Any suggestions? Am I getting things mixed up between how to deal with an MLC'er versus WA spouse?
I really don't know what the best route for me to take.
