yeah, i get it. and yes, it does take two. but remember that hindsight is 20/20. truth is, at least in my case, i've come to believe that his MLC was inevitable, because he didn't deal with his horrific childhood and so any relationship was doomed. not saying i'm without blame. so i get what you're saying here C but the truth is that he's on a journey that he has to take alone in order to heal and all you can do is pray and send unconditional love his way. You, too, are on a journey. YOu're doing so well! Please take a deep breath and give yourself a bit of a break here. xoxoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
