Thanks for the words both.

You're right about detachment, I've struggled especially this week as my S has been poorly and I've contacted the W every day for the last 3 mornings to check on him.

My W emailed me this morning offering for me to have our S on Christmas Day. I feel that this is a massive thing, very kind and a testament to her view as me as a father. I know that there are a lot of guys out there who have to fight to get this kind of contact.

Once again, thanks guys and I'll continue working and trying.

Last edited by Cadet; 10/21/16 05:49 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message
M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016