Just popping in to give you all an update on the laptop situation. Remember h lost his and then accused us of stealing it? Recently, h asked me if the kids and I use our laptop. He said if not, he would take it over rather than buying a new one to replace the missing one. I told him that we do in fact use it and I advised (very politely) that he buy his own. Guess he never found his.
Otherwise, after the text spewing he gave me last week, he is being PA with meals again. He is back to not eating anything I cook and most times now makes an excuse not to join us for dinner at all. Then he goes and sits in the stinky dorm room instead. H still spends way more time in his room than S13 does. But the gap is closing...
Last night the landline finally rang! S11 answered. It was h calling to talk to S11. Guess h wants to remind s about the usefulness of his gift.
Kids have games this weekend. H has been back to ignoring me and all parents at these events, just like he did in the spring. He puts his headphones in (like in the spring) and only watches when his own kids are playing. I know friends notice the oddness of it all and I am so thankful people are too polite to ask me about it.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced