For the past 6 weeks all we have done was argue day in and day out me beg and plead daily etc. after discovering this site and rules a few days ago we had our first rational day in this house no arguing and he says I must have finally come to terms that its over, but I haven’t I so desperately want him back.
Glad that you have stopped begging and pleading. Arguing is not a good idea either. Better to close mouth and walk into another room.
Sorry to say the only way that you may get him back is to LET GO.