Morality Clause in D decree???

[SBJ]

I guess I just don't want to rock my kids any more than they will already be if she files before Thanksgiving...which it seems she might. She has already told our oldest two kids that we are in counseling, but my 10 yo has no clue. I told her that this is her D and she should be the one to tell them all that she wants this, but that dad doesn't and wanted to work things out. I'm not sure, but I feel in the back of my mind that she is trying to rush things so that she can move on to or into another relationship...that is my paranoid outlook anyway.

Then I will have to figure out:

1. Do I ask her to move out?
2. Do I go to the Happiest Place on Earth with her entire fam for 9 days of FUN? With this hanging over our head!!!
3. and the questions just keep coming...