CaliGuy...I haven't even put in all of the lines she has given me. The best yet is, "One of these days you will agree that this is the best thing for us". What a crock of _____!

I understand that yours was prolonged a bit, but my W wants our now and thinks that life will be great/easy. Totally not realistic.

I tried the walk away thing last night and she kept following me. She cornered me in the bathroom and I went to the kitchen. She came into the kitchen so I went into the garage. She came out to the garage and I finally said I was taking a walk. The entire time she was wanting me to agree with her that we should make everything easy and agreeable for our kids sake.

As for PAIN...I'm there. I can't believe someone in their right mind would treat someone they loved the way she is treating me. That being said...I understand that she is not in her right mind right now.

msp710...as for her Post-D life I don't really know. I think she has looked for places to live. She thinks that everything will remain the same financially. We have a college student and 2 kids in private school. We have discussed finances, but she says that is no reason to stay married. HAHA! I'm not saying it is either...I love my wife and don't want the D to happen. Some things are out of our control.

God bless you guys for the encouragement.


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
ILYBINILWYA
HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!