Still no R talk between the W and I, but we're very friendly around each other. Yesterday, after playing with and eating dinner with S, I gave him a bath and put him to bed, I met a friend out for drinks. Pretty low key night really, just stayed out 2 hours and came back around 10.
I found out today my W had chatted with my Friend and told him it was nice he was hanging out with me. My friend wondered aloud if she was checking that I was really with him or not.
Or she could've been sincere and was thanking him, which seems a little weird I think.
Anyway, I'm not reading anything into it, I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing, but I do plan on throwing some nice comments to her now and then, see how she reacts (you look nice today, I like that dress, etc.). Would that be OK, or still keep away from that?
I'm still a little paranoid though, so hard to stop thinking about her. I do OK when I'm doing something, so I guess that's the point of GAL. Tomorrow I'm going to a beer fest with friends, so that should be fun.
I have 1 more chapter with DR left I think, then I'm going back over relevant pieces.
Thanks all, and good luck to everyone in their R's.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16