Update:

Still no R talk between the W and I, but we're very friendly around each other. Yesterday, after playing with and eating dinner with S, I gave him a bath and put him to bed, I met a friend out for drinks. Pretty low key night really, just stayed out 2 hours and came back around 10.

I found out today my W had chatted with my Friend and told him it was nice he was hanging out with me. My friend wondered aloud if she was checking that I was really with him or not.

Or she could've been sincere and was thanking him, which seems a little weird I think.

Anyway, I'm not reading anything into it, I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing, but I do plan on throwing some nice comments to her now and then, see how she reacts (you look nice today, I like that dress, etc.). Would that be OK, or still keep away from that?

I'm still a little paranoid though, so hard to stop thinking about her. I do OK when I'm doing something, so I guess that's the point of GAL. Tomorrow I'm going to a beer fest with friends, so that should be fun.

I have 1 more chapter with DR left I think, then I'm going back over relevant pieces.

Thanks all, and good luck to everyone in their R's.


M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16