New and need help.

[mulesqb]

Hi RBG - Just wanted to drop in. When I read your posts I see someone who hasn't even begun to detach yet. You are caught up in every interaction with her and consistently trying to read her mind.

How about changing your mindset? Drop the rope. Start thinking about how you see your future and what you want in a R. What real changes would you like to see from yourself? Don't try to get through each day...LIVE each day. I am sure there are thing s you stopped doing during your M that you wished you had more time for. Or things your W wasn't interested in. Start getting back into them. Reconnect with more friends. Changing your mindset and concentrating on yourself paves the way to detachment.

I don't want to downplay how difficult this time can be. But I do want you realize that working on yourself and becoming the best version of you (most attractive) puts you in a great place. You either DB your WW and you have a brand new R, or you move on and start a new phase of your life as the redefined RBG. You can handle this.

Strength and Honor.

Mules