Found out about W affair, she does not know I know

[Steady9]

Ok talked about A today. It went well I would say and calm. She is disappointed in herself. She said it was stupid it was a guy she had not seen since 8th grade re connect on FB and guy had recently gone through divorce and my W was giving some advice I guess. Supposedly he meant nothing and it was not planned. Her going to home town to see him. She said she feels stupid. She said he does not even have manners..... she seems sincere.

She wants to do whatever it takes to save MR. she feels guilty and thanked me for giving it another chance yesterday and today after the more detail discussion.