You Can't Fix 'Em-But What About Family?

[twinmom]

If your H is so wonderful & you have an amazing relationship why are you here?

I'm a little dense & just don't understand why you are saying everything is perfect but are seeking advice on a marriage saving site?

Yep, I'm just baffled.

Turn the question around: if you are on a marriage saving site, why is your marriage so miserable?

Because when you actually break free from everyone else's miserable tales and the advice about how you need to handle your husband, and stop looking at your husband and what horrible things he might do through the stories of others, you see him with your own eyes again and remember that he is the man you love and not the monsters that everyone else says they are married to, and when you start dealing with him in the way you know best rather than how others tell you to do so, it all becomes so much easier and feels natural and comfortable.

Well, first off this site isn't a "magic pill" that just by visiting your marriage becomes perfect. This site is about helping to save your marriage & yourself. It takes time to do that so many people who are here are still in that process.
And I do look at my husband differently than other people but me personally I'm not cool with any other women besides me in his "romantic" life...... that's just me but I'm all about the 1 on 1 thing for relationships. So no I'm not going to look at him and be like 'yea sure, go do whatever you want' nope that's not being true to me.

I was just completely confused why you were seeking marriage advice when you say you have it all figured out.