Found out about W affair, she does not know I know

[Steady9]

My W added these paragraphs to her letter to me. I have asked her to add thoughts to this document as things come up or due to some discussions we are having. Also she is interested in reading a book and thought she should read the book I picked up today. She does not know the title. I just let her know I was reading and education myself on how to have better conversations and learning from tough relationship issues. Is it ok for her to read the DR book? Or is that off limits???

-----W writing to me-----
It will also be important the neither of us does something in such a manner that could make us stop loving one another. This may be partially subjective, however a very broad example that may encompass the most is... doing or saying anything that you would not normally do if the other of us were there. This can fall under, Trust/honesty/respect section.

Your trust in me is gone, I have not been living 100% by all the above "whats important to me" items. All I can tell you, is that I promise everyday moving forward, that I will. I am confident our relationship can regain its momentum and integrity.