And as to handling the emotions? Get prepared well, make sure your L is on the same page, then leave it to the L. Don't worry about your H. If you are pleasant in person, and just trying to protect yourself, then let him react however he wants. You are not responsible for his reaction to you just protecting your self from something you never wanted. His decision, his problem.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16