She never really said why she was going to an IC. She started going right as she moved out when she said she was 'confused'. I didn't pry much about it at the time. I ask her some questions about it occasionally now. She said that the IC suggested not contacting me so that it wouldn't get my hopes up. So she had that reason. I knew I felt the best from previous experience that no contact was best so we were in a stalemate, this time last year actually.
Her IC seemed to not be very good IMO. She didn't seem to work to really try to understand what was going with WW. That is why I am nervous about MC. But I guess if both people want it, then that is half the battle.
