If your H is so wonderful & you have an amazing relationship why are you here?
I'm a little dense & just don't understand why you are saying everything is perfect but are seeking advice on a marriage saving site?
Yep, I'm just baffled.
Turn the question around: if you are on a marriage saving site, why is your marriage so miserable?
Because when you actually break free from everyone else's miserable tales and the advice about how you need to handle your husband, and stop looking at your husband and what horrible things he might do through the stories of others, you see him with your own eyes again and remember that he is the man you love and not the monsters that everyone else says they are married to, and when you start dealing with him in the way you know best rather than how others tell you to do so, it all becomes so much easier and feels natural and comfortable.
