Lovely V, thank you for the much needed hugs and strength.

Sara, I'm not sure if I even have much choice about my m, since he threw me all 3 talaqs (not sure if it's valid IF he is depressed or without witnesses). But still, he made his point enough for me to duck out for a while. But you're absolutely right, I need to absolutely focus on me and my children for now, which should be easier now he's out of the house. Less eggshells to tread, less of that where is he and what's he doing, less awkward conversations if I'm feeling particularly annoyed with him and trying to hide it. I truly do think we are, such a shame we had to meet in such crappy circumstances though!


Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16