Thanks. Yes read quite alot of michelles work, need to order DR book at bookshop so i can collect. I have been following alot of the techniques but sliding back, checking in with my wife, once in a while and probably undoing any good work.

What do people think about the sitch where W seems happy and engaging with me, until we try and have an R talk then she is convinced that nothing is better. Is this normal behaviour for a WAS?

M 46 W 41
MR 17 T 18
S12 D14 S17

03/15 : ILYBINILWY
10/15 : IDLYA
01/16 : "I'm sacrificing to stay in the marriage for the kids!"
10/16 : She discusses Seperation
BUT...she's still here..for now