Thank you Rouky, Coly and Sotto. I agree with all of you. I've been mentally and emotionally preparing for this and at the same time it goes against everything I believe in. I have to stick up for myself and my future. I'm not taking an offensive position.... It's stricky defense.
I know my thread is going to close. Before I start my new thread I have a question for you Sotto. How did your ex perceive you while going through the legal process? I just think that my stbxh hates me even more; and by protecting myself it is supporting his decision to continue to walk away.
Like someone told me a few posts up, I can't seem to win for losing. I know he wants me to just roll over and take whatever HE thinks the outcome should be.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
