Look buddy,

a general consesus on these boards is that unless an unmistakable interest is expressed to work on the marriage from the WAS, there really is no point in doing it, as it is only an excuse for the WAS (She tried, she gave it a shot, didn't work, time to go off and be "happy"...).

In your signature you say that W had an EA APR-JUL. What makes you think the EA ended?