Hi Feyth, big hugs from me too. It isn't easy going through the exchanges that accompany divorce proceedings. I can remember being unsettled when things arrived and I had to face them and look at them and respond. What I did find too is that things would only unsettle me for a little while - just that day, or a couple of days. Like you, I had many other things going on and I would get involved in them again and the D process would fade a little. And then I would deal with the next thing that came in and so on.

It isn't nice, but it does have to be done and I think the main thing to do is aim to travel this path in a way that sits well with you. For me I look back and I don't have significant regrets about my part in the D process and I'm glad that's the case.

I hope tomorrow is a better day for you Sweetie xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus