That's the way it has to be. My W told me that he'd be 'better off without me' before we sold the house. At the same time she was threatening to move 230 miles away and said that 'the kids would get over it' and my S 'he doesn't know what's going on'.
You have to bite your lip and drink a STFU smoothie. Giving you parenting advice is a way of controlling you. Normally, my W will deliver her advice when she leaves, and then forgets all about it the next time she comes.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015