fwiw, I was able to check out her phone and didn't see any A activity. I also checked her mail and other app, and didn't see anything. I was sure I'd fid something.
I know, snooping bad, but I did it anyway. I guess I feel a little better, but I know not to believe I'm anywhere near out of the tunnel.
I'll keep working on myself, and hope for the best.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16