great advice guys, as always, I appreciate it.

fwiw, I was able to check out her phone and didn't see any A activity. I also checked her mail and other app, and didn't see anything. I was sure I'd fid something.

I know, snooping bad, but I did it anyway. I guess I feel a little better, but I know not to believe I'm anywhere near out of the tunnel.

I'll keep working on myself, and hope for the best.


M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16