That is great news, Phoebe. I admire your strength and fortitude. Facing that court appearance and seeing him again -- all while holding it together so well -- that's something to build on, for sure. You can do this.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)