Resse's Pieces (6)

[Coly23]

Sounds like you had a good weekend Pinn and we'll done on the half marathon!

It's a shame the shine was taken off it a bit by the FB post. As much as I don't think your friends were right in expressing their feelings on FB about you and W getting back together I don't think your W handled it very well. I think she needs to understand that your friends supported you through some very dark times so are understandably nervous and concerned for you. Personally I would give your friends a break and speak with them all about what is going on and ask them again for their support. If they are indeed your friends they wil.

As far as where to go from here. I am not at that stage so hopefully someone like Blu can chime in here however have you thought of you both going to a pro marriage counsellor or even getting a DB coach?

I'm glad you posted actually. I was wondering if you pop over to the MLC board and provide some PMA on my sitch? I've been NC with H for nearly six weeks now and apart from wishing him for his birthday last Sunday I've had no communication with him. My D has had a couple of tm's with him but not seen him for the same amount of time either although he has asked to see her. I know you went a long time with no commication with your W but I am starting to feel like my H has moved on and has no intention of contacting me again. He still has a closet full of clothes here and all his belongings in the loft and garage but has made no attempt to remove them. I know you said your W was told by her therapist to go NC with you but did she tell you what result she was hoping to get?

I think your doing great Pinn!!