I do sincerely hope that you will arrive at a place where you will be able to open your heart wide enough to allow another woman into your life. You deserve all the happiness, peace, and contentment that comes with a loving and supportive partner in your life. She's out there waiting for you. Will you take notice AND take action toward her?
There are a plethora good models out there that there's indeed a life after a D with a new spouse. Take my own mother for instance...she's been happily remarried to her husband of 30 years. Change your lens and refocus on those who have gone on to happy second marriages. I see this all the time too. I think your focus is in the wrong place which seems to drive your own internal negative narrative about second marriages/remarried people.
