New LBH with WAW/Possibly WW, help Part 2

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Naturally my mind would be concerned about the trip as well thinking it's a rendezvous point. But in the large scheme of things, part of the process is not focusing on her or the affair and focusing on you! In complete honesty, the A is/was a symptom and not the main issue. Same with the porn addiction. Or alcohol. Or blow. Or gambling. Something else is there to cause or allow those weaknesses to blow up. Keep focusing on your son and you. Doesn't matter if she's packing bags or lube to go see the OM, at the end of the day if you want the marriage to work or end up working and being great down the road, stay the course and focus on you and only you. Stay in your own lane. You are the absolute last person right now that she needs "help" from. You and your son....only 2 people that really deserve your focus and attention.