Cadet - I read trusting faith's link you provided me about the life in MLC'er. I am just wondering how it turned out for her.
She does have more threads here click on her name, post, topics and you will get the list.
I am friends with her and what I said is pretty much so.
I wrote to you:
Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally Posted By: kdvor
Also - Can somebody explain, why is it ok to let him live in the house, come and go as he chooses, provide no assistance with kids, daily living, etc. while sits on the couch drinking and lets me manage the entire life around him.
Here is a thread of an LBS that has a live in MLC'er
I can tell you he still lives in the basement and we are getting on towards 8 years. There are signs that he might be coming out of it.
Hope that helps.
The signs that he is coming out are that he has reconnected with the house, dog, and sometimes the kids. He is starting to act like a father again, and take some responsibilities for the house.
He still lives in the basement and there is still more crisis to go. So it is not yet decided, IMHO.
