Hanging on and hoping for the best

[BillyHo]

So we went to our C today. W went first for abou 35min. When I came back in she said that when she chased after me last night it was falling into on old pattern of mothering. When W left the room I told the C of my concerns about the valtrex. She said so you have pretty much decided that W has had a PA. I said yes. She said it is very interesting that you both think you know each other so well and know exactly what the other is thinking or doing and you both assume you are right.

She said lets table the valtrex stuff until next time but let W know that you are not comfortable with her going away this weekend within driving distance of OM. She said this will help me with my conflict avoidance problem.

I think maybe the trip a few weeks back was when the PA took place. My wife told me later she has cut off all contact with OM. I am thinking this is why the C may have steered me away from the valtrex thing for now.

We actually talked for 30min on the way home. I think I almost talked her into the 6 months of MC. We'll see what happens next week. I told her it's not like a life sentence. Do 6 months and see how it goes and then re-evaluate .