New LBH with WAW/Possibly WW, help Part 2

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darknes made a good point, I didn't say anything about me and my progress.

I went jogging again Sunday morning, and it felt nice. I'm good and out of shape cardio-wise though, so I need to keep this up. Played golf later that day with some friends, went home, and got a nice sleep.

Monday, hit the gym at lunch again, after putting S to bed, I went to the bar to watch some football. My buddy couldn't make it, so it was just me, and it sucked to be honest; not many people out, and little interactions, besides the bartender.

Tuesday, gym at lunch, and I picked up some greek food afterwards, and we all sat and ate as a family (W included). After putting S to bed, the W and I watched some programs, then we went our separate way.

Today, I picked up S during lunch, and we walked around our park again, had a lunch outside, and had a good time (without W).

Tonight i'm heading out to play cards with my friends again.

So, I'm trying to fix myself (exercise and diet) GAL (golf, cards, time with son), and giving W some space as well. Oh, and no porn since the BD, since that was one of the issues in our marriage.

Again, when I finish DR (almost done), I'll go back and work on the relevant sections. Some sections just aren't relevant for me, so I'll consume the other sections again. BTW, I have DB as well as DR, should I read DB too, after reading DR, or does DR cover everything for me?

I also understand about the grass analogy, I'm going to be patient, and see how things play out.

Thanks all.