I asked her to do this under the context of starting now - As a way to not confront about A and decide how we would treat each other moving forward. Or more what she was willing to commit to do to stop us from splitting up.
H (me) 52, W 42 M 15 D14, S12 PA June and Sept 2016 Found out Sept, confronted Oct NC with OM since Oct, remorseful Dating since Nov