It comes down to whether or not you agree with her list. Is this something she's willing to talk to you about? If so, then you have to tell her that the conversation will be hard, but in order for it to work then you have to go point by point from both of your perspectives.
Of course this will not work at all if she didnt' say that she wants to stay married to you.
When do you plan to pick up the books? It will help us to give you proper strategies and will help to focus your questions rather than asking general ones that are covered in them.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
