Thanks Job. My whole life is my kids. I spend every minute with them, driving them places, caring for them, playing etc. I feel that when I detach/ignore my husband, I am not myself with the kids. I am not my happy go lucky self. I tend to get frustrated and or distracted easily.

I have been reading Hawho's theads. Which have been very helpful. I just can't believe she is STILL going through this. . . .

If it was a friend, I wouldn't do anything of those things. A distant friend, the same. But a friend doesn't live in your house, right?

As I GAL, without my husband. How do I explain he is repeatedly missing from my life.