Originally Posted By: Oluwa
Last weekend I asked her about it again, whether she had read it, and she said that she had started to. But then the next week I asked her again and she said, please stop nagging. She said that I keep pushing for an answer, when she is still trying to sort her own emotions out on what she wants to do!!! (This confused me again, as I thought she said that she wanted to separate 3 weeks before and she was pretty adamant on that).


Oluwa,

I'm sorry you're here; you'll get a lot of support and advice on this forum.

When a spouse is ready to leave the marriage, it's often very confusing. The confusion is reflection of your wife's inner turmoil.