Thanks Sotto. Yes, I guess it is replay. Guess when he was showing my attention and nice to me that perhaps he was coming out of it.
My goals:
I want my old husband back. I want a real, loving and happy family. I want to be loved and cared for. I want to be happy despite his actions (but I just don't know how). I want him to believe that I love him and our marriage is worth fighting for.
After initiating the R talk and sending that text (which he has not responded to) - how does it make sense for me to now "go dim". Aren't I sending contradictory messages?