I understand what you saying Rose, but my text was meant to be an apology for being angry and say "i love you and I will stand by you through this". I felt if I showed him that what he saying is really a made up story in his head then he could maybe dig deep and find what is really going on with him.

Is there any benefit to reaching out to one of his friends to talk some sense in him?

I am reading and reading and reading about detachment. Understanding it is easy. but actually doing it seems impossible. Especially when he is in my face constantly.

I am just so sad and frustrated. He hasn't responded to my text at all?