I think my wife is in MLC and it seems hopeless

[SBJ]

Ginger1...I agree that I slipped into the "what can I do for you" mentality. My wife and I joked for years that there are givers and there are takers...she said that I was the giver and she was the taker.

I honestly derived pleasure out of doing for my my family...but in reality it was to the detriment of me and my M. I am trying to come to grips with that as I move forward.

Life is about a healthy balance...God/Self/Family. I just need to put God first and then see myself as just as important as my W.