Thanks for the advice and the changes. S has told me that W is going to be away visiting her parents all weekend which means she won't see him before Tuesday which is his birthday. It's a busy working day so S will have to arrange some other time if he wants. He has told me that he has no interest in having a meal all together. I've told him I'm not going to interfere with his R with his mum so he can do what he feels comfortable with. She won't be thrilled but she can't have everything the way she wants. S and I have a great R at the moment and I'm going to lose that talking constantly about his mum.
