Originally Posted By: kdvor
Also - Can somebody explain, why is it ok to let him live in the house, come and go as he chooses, provide no assistance with kids, daily living, etc. while sits on the couch drinking and lets me manage the entire life around him.

Here is a thread of an LBS that has a live in MLC'er

Trustingfaith

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...710#Post1779710

I can tell you he still lives in the basement and we are getting on towards 8 years.
There are signs that he might be coming out of it.

Hope that helps.


Me-70, D37,S36